Beyond Boring

Daring to Go Wild: Reclaim Your Life’s Adventure

When my kids were little and said “Mommy, I’, bored, can I watch TV?” I used to answer “Oh, really? How exiting – I wonder what is coming out of you from that boredom…..” And guess what: no TV! Instead: super-sweet paintings, handicrafts, amazing innovations (including flooding the downstairs neighbor’s balcony from this new plant watering-system made of pieces found in the garbage and a hut in the woods, a homeless lived in later on….). The idea: Better fail, than never even dare – and repeat….!

The other day, I met a woman who described herself as “boring.” She was a neurologist—successful, recognized, and accomplished by society’s standards. She had built material wealth and external security, yet something crucial was missing. She longed for adventure, for aliveness, for a touch of wildness in her life.

Sound familiar?

I get it. I used to run a business and know exactly how an 8-6 job feels—balancing work with weekend chaos, trying to check all the boxes that define “success.” But what if the traditional idea of success doesn’t resonate with you? What if success is not about fitting into society’s mold but about living according to your values?

Who Are You, Really?

This is the biggest question. You’re not just a body with a brain or a collection of doubts and fears. You are energy. And that energy needs to flow, to express, to feel free. What are your values? What drives you? For me, it’s about love, peace, health, connection, and creativity. I value surprise, innovation, and learning. I crave moments of exploration and joy, not just routine.

But guess what? 👌🏽 It’s okay if you don’t have it all figured out yet!!!! Balance isn’t static. It’s a dance of energy—sometimes you flow, and sometimes you stumble. But that’s where the magic happens.

Embrace Your Energy, Your Wildness

Famous scientists like Einstein and Tesla knew we are more than physical beings—we are vibration and energy. It’s not some mystical notion; it’s science. Your thoughts, your emotions, and your actions are energy. If you want a shift, you must become conscious of them.

Instead of saying “I have to,” say “I choose to.” Feel the difference?

How to Reconnect with Yourself

  • Nature is your playground. Go outside. Put your feet on the ground. Breathe. Reconnect with the earth—it’s grounding, healing, and transformative. You don’t need me to tell you this, but sometimes we forget how simple it is to reset. Nature is always there, waiting for you.
  • Navigate your emotions. Don’t run from them. Feel them—because they’re not good or bad, they’re just energy. Trust that by feeling them, you release them. Waves come and go, but you get stronger with each one.
  • Say no to drama. You don’t need to participate in every conflict or every expectation placed on you. Separate yourself from the noise. Radical honesty and self-love will lead you where societal norms never will—toward joy, balance, and freedom.

Your Joy Matters

What brings you joy? Really think about it. Your body is your home, your mind is its guide—treat them kindly. Don’t push yourself harshly. Be compassionate, like you would with your best friend or your child.

Living joyfully doesn’t mean ignoring discomfort; it means embracing all of it—the good, the bad, and the ugly. Because when you allow yourself to fully feel, you heal.

Ready to Take the Leap?

If you’re ready to explore, to go wild, to embrace your fullest self, let’s talk. I can’t walk the path for you, but I can guide you toward rediscovering your own wildness—your own joy.

Know someone who needs to hear this? Share it! Follow @WalkingGuru on Instagram or schedule a free, 15-https://thewalkingguru.org/contactminute consultation with me to explore how coaching in nature can shift your life!


PS: those of you who know me understand – we don’t have to fit in a box – we can invent a new box and another one and another one…. http://manuelastoerzer.com

#GoWild #AdventureAwaits #FindYourJoy #WalkingGuru #NatureHeals #ReconnectWithSelf #SelfEmpowerment #RadicalHonesty #GroundingEnergy

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