A state of crisis has one big benefit: it becomes so uncomfortable that you can no longer just keep going in the hamster wheel. When the pressure, the pain, the sickness or the lack of warmth, love and inner peace becomes unbearable, this the moment, when you realize: I am stuck in what I thought [...]
Moody and a lot of good reasons for it???? It is obvious: we can't control life around us. However, we are part of this picture. We can influence our surroundings by the way we respond to situations. The way we appear in the world is how we influence. The way we "vibrate" is what we [...]
Clinging to thinking, knowing it all and trying to change? Trying is not good. Discipline and applying tools is necessary to conquer old habits.
Imagine your life as a jungle of different energies vibrating alongside. The family, the colleagues, the confrontations of different ideas and priorities. And mostly: the energies moving us in form of thoughts, emotions and actions. The thousands of years of culture impregnated in our brains down to our very cells. Old information conditioning the way [...]
You know how hard it is for some people to DREAM? Afraid of dreaming, fearing the pain of failure? Not daring to dream equals not daring to look outside the box that you are born into. A product of genes and environment? Where are YOU? Life is evolution, movement, change. We are the story-writers, directors, [...]
The subtle art of not giving a f*ck is an audio-book (available as book) by Mark Manson I recommend to my clients for the following reasons: It is really funny to listen to It inspires to question yourself It makes you think about your values It makes you stop criticising being the way you are [...]
Remember Napoleon Hill's "Think and Get Rich", or Murphy's Power of the Subconscious. T. Harv Eker continued with his Millionaire's Mind books and programs. Many authors have been writing about the amazing capacities of the subconscious. Coaches such as Tony Robbins talk about it and use techniques such as Neurolinguistic Programming to overwrite programs that don't [...]
You know that feeling: Situations are changing all the time and the mind is sticking to the problems on the way. It seems hard or almost impossible to just "shut off". Plus: what we judge as negative emotions make life even more uncomfortable. Unless we somehow manage to push those "ugly feelings" aside. Remedies for that "dis-ease" range from alcohol, soft [...]
Yes, but... You know that one? Time to change and get out of that comfort zone, that is not really comfortable after all...
What makes a leader an excellent leader? Leadership skills everybody needs. First of all, to lead oneself, personal mastery. The question is: who is oneself, who am I? In order to find that out, we need to clear out conditioning programs that don't fit to our true essence. Enable ourselves to work according to some [...]
What is it that makes small businesses succeed whereas others fail? I am a big believer of following your hearts desire because in 15 years of coaching I came to the conclusion that the best business is worth little if you don't enjoy doing what you doing. Especially when it comes to starting small business: you're [...]
Does Mind over Matter,"the use of willpower to overcome physical problems" work? Due to mind over matter there is such a thing as placebo effect. Is it the pill that works or my expectation of it working? The phrase also relates to the ability to control the perception of pain that one may or may [...]